I felt my blood pressure go up reading this--I'd react in the same way: some of the digs she made about the kind of parent (she thinks) you are, and what she generally thinks about those with less kids than her suggest a lot of projection going on that you couldn't possibly have anticipated. (Of course, maybe you just got her on a bad day) Either way, it's nothing to do with you!)

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